My Husband Is Addicted
To Porn

I Think My Husband Is Addicted To Porn.

Porn Addiction Help In Long Beach and Orange County

You are looking for help and there is a good chance that your world has been turned upside down by your husband’s porn addiction. You feel hurt anger and betrayal. You may feel confused, not sure what to do next or whom to turn to for help.

You may have been asking yourself some of these questions.

• How can I survive, I feel so crushed.
• How could I have been so stupid for not seeing it?
• I feel rejected.
• I feel blindsided by what I found.
• How can I ever trust him?
• He told me he would stop, but I found it again.
• How long do I put up with this?
• Will our marriage survive?

It is normal to feel overwhelmed upon finding out that your partner or spouse has an addiction you didn’t know about. You can feel like you are going crazy or you are losing your mind.

This is common when uncovering the details of your partner’s porn addiction. The first thing we would like you to know is that you are not alone; but, it is important to get help for yourself and for your relationship.

THE EXPERTS AT NOVUS MINDFUL LIFE INSTITUTE CAN HELP YOU UNDERSTAND.

Spouse and partners can often feel overwhelmed by the discovery or exhausted in trying to address the issue. When they get help and set helpful boundaries things, usually begin to change.

Barbara Christian, AMFT, CSAT

Specialized Counselor at Novus Mindful Life Institute

After finding out about his porn use I have been looking through all of his stuff, everything. I feel crazy and ashamed about it. I’m not sure what to do. Should I leave him? How often should I check up on him? How much do I really want to know what he’s been doing? I’m not sure what to do. I just feel so overwhelmed.

This can be a confusing time. Filled with intense emotions of hurt, you may not know what to do next after finding out that your spouse or partner has a porn addiction. It is important to have some clear thinking about what you need to do, and that can be hard when you’re feeling intense hurt, betrayal, and anger. It is difficult to understand porn and sex addiction.

At Novus Mindful Life Institute we are experts at working with these issues. Our staff are trained in this area of expertise and can help guide you in your understanding of your situation. We understand the hurt and confusion that comes with porn addiction and sex addiction, and how it impacts you.

He tells me that I’m overreacting to this and that I’m just a prude. He tells me that all men look at porn and that I should be comfortable with it. Is he right? Am I the one with the problem?

Your partner may not want to recognize that he has a problem, but regardless, your relationship has issues. Maybe he would be willing to go to a counseling session with you. If he does not want to go then you can go. Is important for you to figure out what you can do for yourself. It is also important for you to go to a therapist that understands online sexual activities and how it impacts you and your relationship.

Maybe he would be willing to go to a counseling session with you. Ask him to come with you. If he does not want to go then you can go. Is important for you to figure out what you can do for yourself. It is also important for you to go to a therapist that understands online sexual activities and how it impacts you and your relationship.

At Novus Mindful Life Institute we have the expertise to help you figure out what your options are. These are difficult choices to make and you want to be well informed before making any decision. Take the time to get expert help and so you can understand what you are going through.